I heard that. That is one thing to many women put up with. Happy to see you're not one of them. You are to worth it. Congrats for leaving but sry you had to go through it in the first place.

I always said that if a man was crazy enough to hit me he didnt value his life because I always explain the insanity that is in my family.
Im so glad you "dodged a bullet" and are still willing to try. Thats a huge step, Tammy!

So whats the definition of date? I used to say the guy picks you up, but these days its subjective. Especially since I wont want my guy to drive almost 90 then drive me around.

Thank you all for the support. And it sucks to say it but he had the dr. Jekel and Mr Hyde thing that I kind of ignored until it turned on me. I don't have the mental stability to be battered. I would have killed us both. I have to defend myself everytime I walk out into the world. My home shouldn't be a battlefield.


I really don't know which site yet. I've got some looking around to do once I get settled.

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I don't let a man pick me up on the first date. I want to drive my own car so that if I'm uncomfortable or I'm not feeling the situation I can leave. I don't like feeling "trapped". I will meet him wherever we're going. I don't trust people like that and I definitely don't want them knowing where I live off top.

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Ok girls, I am SAD to say, this man did NOT SHOW UP!!!!!!

I talked to this guy for a whole week, all day long, the conversation was flowing, he was funny, I was funny. I don't know what happened. What I said. The last time I sent him a message was Friday. I gave him my number just to make sure he could get in touch with me because Skout sometimes acts funny. He never responded but just thought he was busy.

He got online Sat, didn't speak to me at all. I didn't want to seem to excited to meet him so I didn't say anything either. I was waiting for him to ask me what time I will be at the club or something!

No responses the whole day Sat, into the night, nothing! I sent him a message Sunday, "Morning! What happened to you last night?" By the message I still wanted to seem happy and not mad that he stood me up but more that I was worried something happened to him. I noticed he came on and off line so I KNOW he saw my messages!

I haven't talked to him since.

I really don't understand what happened. He knows what I look like. I have sent him 2 pics. I told him I was a plus size woman so he knows what he is getting body size and he said he liked so I don't know.

At first I was sweating it but now I am just moving on. I feel like he came, saw me and left lol IDK!

No clue. But I had a blast with my girls!!! My hair frizzed up so bad because it was so hot but it was still cute. It frizzed up into a fro!

Maybe it was too soon. Maybe he got nervous. This is what I get for asking him to meet me. I NEVER do this. I put down my guard for a min but its back up!

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Well screw him! His loss!! You looked super cute!! I am glad you had fun despite that idiot. smh

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Exactly! Thanks!

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Maybe he was just all about the talk no action....btw your hair doesn't look frizzy looks very neat and nice... his loss I wouldn't message him anymore

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So Mr. Ebonics is off Wednesday I suggested we meet up. I want it during the day of course maybe lunch or something. He (of course) says oh well I just want to meet you we don't have to go anywhere....I like him and all however we will not be meeting in closed quarters lol he made a comment yesterday over the phone how its a surprise how I don't like to participate in the xxx talking and I not so politely declined his "full body" picture request. I just don't feel that that's appropriate phone conversation

Anyway I want some ideas as to what we should do when we meet this Thursday. Because when i said ill leave it up to him he froze up...

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