OK ladies I need your opinion so my daughters father called me in January and was telling me how his gf mistreats his kids ( I live 3 hours away so he doesn't see our child on a regular) well he didn't know his grandmother and ex wife had already told me she blacked his middle sons eye and put his sons outside called their mother and told her she ain't want to be bothered. So recently I was back home and he gets mad I won't let our child stay the night and honestly I don't want her visiting. he says she is trying to change but I don't trust him or her now am I wrong? I feel like if he allow it he just as bad.

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You already know the answer to this. You're not wrong and he is an idiot for continuing to stay with that broad after she mistreats his children.

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+1,000,000...Do NOT allow your child(ren) to go. If the courts are involved, get an attorney ASAP.

Ditto. She will not be showing how she's "changing" on my child. Blacking an eye of a child and putting them out on the street is abuse. There is no way I would let my child in that environment, i would also question his ability to see his girlfriend for the abuser that she is.

If I was you I wouldn't dare let my child stay over there for more than a millisecond. Shooooot! If he wants time see her I guess it'll be with her at a hotel or something

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I told him id bring her to his gmas house or he could sit with her in my parents yard

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No your first responsibility is to protect your child. He needs to get some sense and put his gf in jail before she does some serious damage. It breaks my heart to see stories of children being abused and murdered by their parents' gf or bf.

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You were not wrong at all. You have to protect your child b/c it don't seem like he will. Better you protect her before u end up in jail from beating the gf...

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LOL he was like she would never hurt our daughter I had to tell him (no offense anyone) "I ain't white like your x wife I would beat her tail" Instead of calling me that's what she should have been doing



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OK so what is the grandma and mother of the kids that the girl treated wrong what are they saying about this or are they just letting her do this also.. You aren't wrong.. I just don't get why he is letting her do that to his own kids.. She won't hurt yall daughter how do he know? Is this dude smoking something for him to let her do this to his kids..

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