gm natural queen i think it looks great, i do know how u feel i did my own big chop in oct and wanted to cry when i was done it grew on me though. one thing about when u cut ur hair u have to own ur boldness(notice i said bold not bald

and work it just like amber rose. U can check my picks to c my big chop yellow shirt. It took a while for my husband to like it but i had confidence so he had to jump on board nothing we could do after the fact. Big Big earrings are a must i still dont walk out the house w/o mine if u wear make or even if u dont play with some eyeshadows, mascara, clear lipgloss goes a long way utube tought me how to do my eyeshadow. Shaebutter is my concealor lol hope this helps sorry about long post. Im in the city too harlem though....