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DaTruth_So_Real · #41 06-09-2012, 02:00 PM

Hey curlfriends...it's been awhile since I last posted. I'm still rockin my protective style. But I feel a BC comin soon!! I know I said I wanted to transition long term, but im so ready to do it now!!!!

Antywhooooo I felt like being all inspirational today. So here are some quotes tht I decided to post.

1st-Personal Growth within ones self:
~Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.~ Aristotle
~ Your real influence is measured by your treatment of yourself.~ A. Bronson Alcott

2nd-Building a Good Character:
~ Sow an act, and you reap a habit; sow a habit, and you reap a character; sow a character, and you reap a destiny.~ George Dana Boardman

3rd- Dealing With People:
~ To rejoice in another's prosperity, is to give content to your own lot: to mitigate another's grief, is to alleviate or dispel your own.~ Thomas Edwards
~ Look to be treated by others as you have treated others.~ Publius Syrus
~ If evil be said of thee, and if it be true, correct thyself; if it be a lie, laugh at it.~ Epictetus
~ Let us believe neither half of the good people tell us of ourselves, nor half of the evil they say of others.~ J. Petit Senn

4th - Words Of Wisdom:
~ The art of being wise is knowing what to overlook.~ William James
~ The man of wisdom is never of two minds; the man of benevolence never worries; the man of courage is never afraid.~ Confucius

5th-Happiness:
~ When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.~ Helen Keller
~ Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances.~ Benjamin Franklin
~ There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying things which are beyond the power of our will.~ Epictetus

6th-Self Improvement:
~ People seldom improve when they have no other model but themselves to copy.~ Oliver Goldsmith
~ Change yourself and fortune will change with you.~ Portugese Proverb
~ The safest principle through life, instead of reforming others, is to set about perfecting yourself.~ B. R. Haydon
~ Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone else expects of you. Never excuse yourself.~ Henry Ward Beecher

7th- Overcome worry & Anxiety:
~ Ask yourself this question: "Will this matter a year from now?" Richard Carlson~
~ The mind that is anxious about future events is miserable.~ Seneca
~ Thus each person by his fears gives wings to rumor, and, without any real source of apprehension, men fear what they themselves have imagined.~ Lucan

8th-Noble Thoughts:
~ What I must do is all that concerns me, not what other people think.~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
~ Change your thoughts and you change your world.~ Norman Vincent Peale
~Obvious thinking commonly leads to wrong judgments and wrong conclusions.~ Humphrey B. Neil
~Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is probably the reason why so few people engage in it.~ Henry Ford

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DaTruth_So_Real · #42 06-21-2012, 08:32 PM

*WARNING: JUST VENTIN*

Im using this moment to vent since nothing is going on with my hair.

I really dont understand what is the problem with ex girlfriends not being able to move on with their life after the relationship has ended. If u feel like u on stuck, and feel like u need sum closure, why not approach da man?!

Instead, dey become so weak minded and take their issues out on the ppl who neva acknowledge them a day in their life. They stalk and harrass dem on natural hair sites, vandalize their property, and stalk them at their schools becuz their life has become so consumed in hatred towards the wrong person. It pisses me off, especially wen older women do this.

If u so called dont want the man back, and he did nuthin but break ur heart and lie, why attack the person who neva said a word to you from the jump?! Why not go after him and let HIM kno how u feel? You dont take it out on the new girlfriend, unless she stepped to u in a disrespectful manner. In wat world does tht make sense??

To me, you have made tht person very famous, because u have allowed tht person to consume ur every thought. Its a trip, on da real. Cuz da person u got all dis animosity towards aint even gave u two thoughts, and you ova dere losing sleep becuz u wanna kno their every move. Uggghhhh. Dese chicks kill me.

Apply all dat extra energy you got into doing sumthin positive. No man shud EVER knock u off ur square like tht. No man nor woman shud ever consume ur thoughts like tht, because n da long run, ur only makin urself look childish and incompetent of handling ur emotions and solving issues in the manner in which an ADULT wud do.

No man is worth the consequences tht WILL occur wen u do all the ignorant things ur emotions led u to do. Smh. If you have kids you shud think about how ur actions affect them. Nothing u do in ur life shud exclude the thought of how it affects the child(ren). But see, sum ppl are so blinded by whats wrong, and fail to do anything right because once again, they are acting off emotions and not being logical.

Get it together; ur kids are ur legacy. And if u aint around to teach them how to live in the correct manner, then who will be there to teach them right from wrong?! This is one of the reasons our younger generations are so far gone in how they analyze and handle relationship issues. It all begins with their very first boyfriend and girlfriend (mommy and daddy). And if mommy aint teaching you how to be a man for a woman, and daddy aint teachin you how to be a woman for a man, they will grow without tht knowledge, and they will be labeled by society as another misguided statistic.

Im done venting for now. Now stalk dis post, and while u stalkin grab a notepad, reread it, and take notes.

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Braelynn Blue · #43 06-21-2012, 08:42 PM

Wow, I may be slow, but an ex girlfriend vandalized your car? Sorry about that.

DaTruth_So_Real · #44 06-21-2012, 09:30 PM

Yea, she did. Most ppl dont understand tht KARMA comes back faster these days, and it comes back in a different way in which it was dished out. Plus this chick is older than me, and I never once came at her on ANY level. Its just sad tht women allow men to get them in a place tht causes reactions tht is indeed a felony. No man is worth losing urself like that. You're supposed to live and learn and apply those lessons you learned. Jus because sumbody was not right for them, doesn't mean that u react in childish ways once ur heart is broken. Most ppl jus grab a gallon of ice cream and watch movies tht make them cry. lol

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DaTruth_So_Real · #45 06-24-2012, 07:57 PM

Hair news!!

Took out my protective style. U kno dat crochet weave I got redone cuz I fell in love with it?! Ive had it up for like 3 weeks, and hunni let me tell you my roots up and decided dat dey was gonna show like there was no tomorrow. And did dey!! So yea, told tht weave, "Baby bye!!" Good part about my new growth is tht its soft and there's a lot of it. I say about 1 1/2 inches have came in this round.

Anyway, its 8:51 pm, and as I type this I am also standin in the mirror mesmerized about how little permed ends I have left. Remember, the top still has those permed ends, but my back is completely natural. I think im about to do wat I said I wudnt do until a few more months from now. I mean, wats stoppin me?!?! My hair scissors are right here and im competent enuff to cut my own hair...so...

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