Originally Posted by CurlyChemist94

Like Raven stated earlier, I didn't get much positive attention from any guys after I cut my hair. I thought I looked good then, but I recently saw some pictures, and I looked boyish. I didn't like that look on me. My face is roundish and chubby, so more hair makes it look better methinks.

Now that my hair is longer, I do get more positive attention from non-black guys. Even if my hair is in a wild TO, 20 something 2 strand twists, or defined and super curly, I usually get a couple stares and winks wherever I go now. The last 2 guys that were "interested" in me (borderline dating, but not quite there) always looked at my hair longingly, but never asked to touch it. Maybe they were afraid it'd fall out lol.
It seems weird, but I've received significantly less attention from black and African/Carribbean men since going natural. They pretty much ignore me, so I just shrug it off and flirt with the guys who do pay attention to me (usually Asian, for some reason).