wow, that crap is mean. With the inlaws if you honestly believe they are only teasing, let them know that 'all jokes aside, you dont appreciate the jokes at your expense and to knock it off.' The chemo thing, was a hater doing their job. My response to that one would have been something like, 'thats cute especially coming from a person who wears SOMEONE else's hair on their head.' (if the commenter was rocking a weave/wig) I am learning that not everything requires a response and everyone isnt deserving of conversation.